Solo Traveler

When I started this blog I thought I would write more about my first solo traveling experience. I thought I would write about the first solo landing when I looked over at the man sitting next to me and wondered what he would think if I asked him to hold my hand while we landed because that is what my husband always does. I thought I would write about feeling scared when I got off the plane in Amsterdam and had to figure out how to get to the gate for my next flight, but I wasn't scared. It really wasn't difficult at all. I thought I might write about how awkward it was being alone when my driver picked me at the airport. I expected to write about  how strange it felt to spend 3 days in the back seat of the car in Pilanesburg with the Lee's. 

But, it DIDN'T feel strange.  

When I reflect on all the things I did as a solo traveler, I am surprised how comfortable I felt. I had a great time with the Lee's. I never felt like a third wheel. When I spent the day with Kenneth and Lesedi I didn't feel awkward at all. We had a blast. 

 Even when the three of us  went out to dinner, I had a great time.  There were even times when the Lee's were working that I went out to eat by myself. It wasn't uncomfortable sitting at the table alone. I  enjoyed people watching. I enjoyed the 45 minute ride alone with my taxi driver, Abram as we headed to Orange Farm.  

Now that I am home reflecting on the lessons I learned on this trip I guess I'd have to say, I found Melinda Leigh. I really liked being a solo traveler. I have always enjoyed having Bruce by my side. It is wonderful to share new adventures with someone you love. 

However, this experience taught me that joy can be found even when you don't have someone by your side. I found that I was more competent than I thought I would be. When I didn't have someone traveling with me, I talked more to strangers, I was more observant. I really enjoyed the quiet times of reflection I had as I sat at the airport or on the long airplane ride. I am so grateful for the opportunity I had to take my first solo adventure. I hope you enjoyed 

Coming Away With Me.